Everyone has at least an idol.

He/She has a kind of glamours which attracts you, such as their appearance, elegance, intelligence, skills whatever.

He/She is so perfect in your mind. Not even one defect can be found, of course in your mind only.

You do not dare to talk or contact with him/her, because he/she is so perfect. Every contact with this person is regarded as a bonus in your life or a gift from Jesus Christ. You treasure every moment with this gift, even an one-minute glimpse of it is enough for you to be smug for several days. He/She is a god/goddess and what are you? You are only a person without any special quality - a normal person. A person who can talk to a god/goddess! Shouldn't he/she be as happy as a clam?

However, the more you know about this god/goddess, the more shortcomings of him/her you find out. He is no longer a gift from Jesus, but a person like you, a normal person living on the same planet as you. What formerly attract your attentions also lose their power. Spells fade and your idol is no longer your idol from now on.

To keep your idol with a perfect image in your mind, try not to destroy the status quo you have now.

Your Idols should remain being your idol. Don't cross the line or else, you should get ready to face the disappointment.

To avoid another disppointment, I kept staying away from my 'idol', even we sat at the same table in the high table dinner last night. He looked really smart with his suit on! HAHAHAHA!!!!!.......